story of sea and captain

There was this part of the sea, filled with dangerous rocks and traps that often causes ships to sink. It was called the gra
veyard for ships.
But there was this old captian who sailed there for forty years. Then people started to ask how he did it.

Reporter : " Could you tell us how can you know all the dangerous places in that part of the sea and avoid them? Bceause the terrain is so complex and the sea is so vast. Please share with us your secret.

Old Captain: "Well, actually I don't remember all the dangerous places in that part of the sea, all I know is a safe path, and I always follow the safe path."

When we can't find the reason to our failure, maybe because there are too many reasons for it, and even if we knew, it doesn't help.

Finding the correct way is more important than dwelling in your mistakes.
Then maybe after many years, you will unintentionally get the answer that you had so wanted in the past.